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FACT:LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP

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I've been in relationships and I've found out that love does not guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person. After all, cheating is not always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone does not guarantee not falling in love with another person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, it work out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline. You see, times will come when you will see people that are better than the person you're in a relationship with. In those times, love will not help you, emotional maturity, self control, intelligence and commitment will help you. No matter how you feel for someone, the person you're committed to ranks first in your life. You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do. But understand that

Money Management Mistakes.

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Money Mistake 1 Never borrow money that accrues interest to start a business . That is to say, never borrow money to start a business expecting that the business will generate income to pay back the borrowed money plus the interest. Money Mistake 2 Never spend money you haven't received. Don't even promise someone money based on a promise you have from someone else. If someone tells you: "Ezra, come to my office tomorrow at 9am and pick #30K"don't go out to buy items on credit based on this promise, with the hope that you will pay off your creditor when the promised money comes; it may not come as promised and this will leave you in problems with your creditors. Money Mistakes 3 If you want to save, whenever you receive money, don’t start spending hoping that you’ll save what remains. Normally what remains is zero because as long as money to spend is available, the numerous things you can spend it on are also available. And things to spend on even incite thei

Ways to Use Conflict to Find Solutions to Problems.

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Tension is good when you give it space to create solutions rather than disrupt the relationships among group members. Every group is inherently dysfunctional. It's the differences in people,  priorities that create pressure. Dysfunction is good -- those individuals and their differences bind the team together like eggs in a cake. Without the egg, those ingredients won't stick together. As a leader, you want your group talent to contribute to a high-performing group. That means developing your own capacity for using tension to have comprehensive conservations. Knowing that preventing confrontation is the easier way, speaking out frustration and accepting tension is, in fact,  functionally  dysfunctional. These conversations provide the opportunity for people to confirm each other and continue to work together (or not). This is the functionally dysfunctional part. The desire to communicate is good; however, how it plays out is often bumpy. The Choice Is Yours Global teams,

NIGERIA INDEPENDENCE 2017.

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NIGERIA @57 On October 1,1960, the flag of British Colonial Nigeria was lowered and new flag was raised. After a century of British influence, the region we know today as Nigeria became a commonwealth realm. This made the new country a sovereign state, and gave it the same political status as other countries around the globe. Though 1960 is generally celebrated as the birth year of Nigeria, it wasn’t until 1963 that the rule of monarchy was abolished and the Federal Republic of Nigeria was born. In any case, October 1 is a significant date in the history of Africa’s most populous nation. Today we celebrate this diverse nation and its glorious green and white flag. Happy Independence Day, Nigeria Nigerian Independence day October 1st remains a special date for all Nigerians as this marks the day when we attained one of the most precious of human desires — freedom. Over the years the country has gone through trials and tribulations, but October 1st is always a day for celebrations.

How to have a happy family in 7 steps

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1)Having dinner together matter Children who have dinner with their families do better across practically every possible metric. A current rush of research demonstrates that kids who dine with their families are more averse to drink, smoke, take drugs, get pregnant, submit suicide, and create dietary problems. Extra research found that youngsters who appreciate family suppers have bigger vocabularies, better behavior, more advantageous weight control plans, and higher confidence. The most thorough review done on this subject, a  University of Michigan  report that analyzed how American youngsters invested their energy in the vicinity of 1981 and 1997, found that the measure of time kids spent eating dinners at home was the single greatest indicator of better scholarly accomplishment and less behavioral issues. Mealtime was more compelling than time spent in school, considering, going to religious administrations, or playing sports.  Doesn't work for your family's calendar? It d

How different are men's and women's brains?

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By what method may contrasts in the brains of men and ladies influence their conduct and discernment? We research. In a universe of equivalent rights, and sexual orientation , one inquiry stays integral to our comprehension of the two natural genders: are men's and ladies' brains wired in an different way? Assuming this is the case, how, and how could that be important?  There are many examinations that intend to investigate the subject of hidden contrasts between the brains of men and ladies. In any case, the outcomes appear to fluctuate uncontrollably, or the elucidations given to the primary discoveries are in difference.  In existing investigations, scientists have taken a gander at any physiological contrasts between the brains of men and ladies. They at that point contemplated examples of initiation in the brains of members of both genders to check whether men and ladies identify with a similar outer jolts and subjective or engine assignments similarly.  At last, the inqu

Simple Home Maintenance Skills Millennials Don't Know

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It's tough to be a millennial in the present land market. Crippling student debt and  high world land costs have made it more difficult than any other time in recent memory to save for a down payment. Regardless of the possibility that you're fortunate to defeat the greater part of that and actually buy a home,you've got to take care of it. It's sufficient to influence you to ponder whether you surrendered leasing too early. Generally, millennials are not known to be top home DIYers. Indeed, as a group, they tend to timid far from genuine home maintenance, says Ed Padilla,the founder of the Association of Certified Handyman Professionals. They'll call somebody to settle the issue as opposed to prevent the issue, he says. Furthermore, better believe it, those expenses can rapidly increase. So now that you've have at last accomplished the American Dream, would you prefer not to modify your piggybank of hard-earned money? We suspected as much! That is the reaso

Goal Getting-Ways to move from a loser to a Go-getter

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Steadiness, more than ability, decides how far you go and where you wind up. Achievement, more than anything, is a disposition you convey about yourself and your life. We are on the whole equipped for certainty, of having everything, losing it all and picking up it back over and over. It is enticing to surrender and claim overcome when the chips are down. Dread and disappointment are the two feelings most in charge of stopping. We should figure out how to hold up under both if we are to achieve the levels of accomplishment we want. Being a go-getter is something that will wax and disappear all through your vocation, so it is shrewd to view it as a goodness to be polished as opposed to something to be mastered in a solitary choice. 1. Grasp disappointment. Determined workers accept failure as a piece of their entrepreneurial voyage. View failure as your most basic learning device. Disappointment constrains you to discover and get to your own particular inward supplies of mental tough

The Expression Undergraduates Debate Challenge

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The Expression Debates Challenge is designed to be an annual platform that leverages the culture of debates to stimulate and raise youth voices and participation in contemporary national issues.  The 2017 edition shall focus on commemorating the United Nations 2017 International Anti-Corruption Day by providing a platform for young people to raise their voices against corruption in Nigeria. Up to one million Naira to be won by 3 finalists! For application guidelines  visit  www.youngstarsfoundation.org/theexpressiondebates Eligibility: teams of two Undergraduates from a tertiary institution in Nigeria.  Age 16 – 27years old Application closes midnight 15th October 2017.

Career lessons from Fortune’s 5 most powerful women in business

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Fortune released its list of the Most Powerful Women  in 2017, the twentieth anniversary of ranking the most powerful female leaders across industries. The list comes in the midst of thunderings of a rising reaction against the development of ladies in a few ventures — including tech — and in the midst of  low portrayal of ladies in the official positions of partnerships.  Here are a few things we can gain from the best positioned ladies pioneers:  1. Mary Barra: Get happy with being awkward  The Director and Chief of General Engines asserted the best spot for the third year in succession, and discussed why attempting new things can be gainful for professions.  Reacting to an inquiry concerning what she'd tell young ladies, Barra discussed the significance of extending your viewpoints, regardless of the possibility that it makes you apprehensive.  "I would state to young ladies, when you get that tad bit of a bunch in your stomach and you feel a tiny bit of uneasiness in v

SD-WISE, a scale to measure an individual's level of wisdom

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Specialists from the College of California San Diego Institute of Medicine have built up an instrument to measure an element's level of wisdom,called the San Diego Wisdom Scale (SD-WISE), the scale depends on a conceptualisation of insight as a characteristic with a neurobiological and additionally psychosocial premise. "There is confirmation to recommend that the level of shrewdness is managed to an expansive degree by neurobiology, and that particular locales and frameworks in the mind administer the distinguished segments of astuteness," said Dilip Jeste, Chief of UC San Diego Center for Health Aging "There are strategies which evaluate a man's level of intelligence, yet they don't have the developing neurobiological models of the attribute. "SD-WISE mirrors the most recent considering. We trust it might be a helpful device in clinical practice, notwithstanding its incentive in bio psycho social research, particularly looks into the neurobiology of in

Time Management Tips for Achieving Your Goals.

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Serious goal setting requires an unblinking focus on effective time management. One of the most effective skills you can have in life is proper time management. If you're not effectively managing your time, there's virtually no way you're going to reach your goals. Sure, you might make some progress. But you'll discover a demanding uphill battle if you don't take your time seriously. For people who squander and waste the precious little time they do have, they know all too well how difficult achieving even mildly difficult goals can be. The truth is that time is the greatest equalizer in life. No matter who you are, your age, income, gender, race or religion, you have the same amount of time as the next person. Whether you're filthy rich or dirt poor, your time is the same. It's not about how much time you have. It's about how effectively you manage your time. So if you're serious about achieving your goals, not only do you need to set those goals