FACT:LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP

By Olawale Daniel

I've been in relationships and I've found out that love does not guarantee the success of a relationship.

Love cannot help you stick to one person. After all, cheating is not always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone does not guarantee not falling in love with another person.

Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, it work out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline.

You see, times will come when you will see people that are better than the person you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you, emotional maturity, self control, intelligence and commitment will help you.

No matter how you feel for someone, the person you're committed to ranks first in your life.

You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do. But understand that commitment is greater than feelings, it's a great arsenal to destroy that impulse.

You can fall in love with anyone but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than love. We're too fond of loving when it's convenient, when it's sweet.

We're too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped, and it is now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, it's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough and sometimes can be so bitter but you can always make it work through hard work.

Written by Davies David Veto A student of  University of Ibadan.

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